I’ve learned by Omer B.
Washington
I’ve
learned-
that you cannot make someone love you.
that you cannot make someone love you.
All you can
do is be someone who can be loved.
The rest is
up to them.
I’ve
learned-
that no matter how much I care,
that no matter how much I care,
Some people
just don’t care back.
I’ve
learned-
that it takes years to build up trust,
that it takes years to build up trust,
and only seconds to destroy it.
I’ve
learned-
that no matter how good a friend is,
that no matter how good a friend is,
they’re
going to hurt you every once in a while
and you must
forgive them for that.
I’ve
learned-
that it’s not what you have in your life
that it’s not what you have in your life
but who you
have in your life that counts.
I’ve
learned-
that you should never ruin an apology with an excuse.
that you should never ruin an apology with an excuse.
I’ve
learned-
that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do.
that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do.
I’ve
learned-
that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
I’ve
learned-
that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
I’ve
learned-
that you should always leave loved ones with loving words.
that you should always leave loved ones with loving words.
It may be
the last time you see them.
I’ve
learned-
that we are
responsible for what we do,
no matter
how we feel.
I’ve
learned-
that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I’ve
learned-
that heroes are the people who do what has to be done
that heroes are the people who do what has to be done
when it needs to be done regardless of the
consequences.
I’ve
learned-
that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down
that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down
will be the
ones to help you get back up.
I’ve
learned-
that true friendship continues to grow,
that true friendship continues to grow,
even over
the longest distance.
Same goes
for true love.
I’ve
learned-
that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to,
that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to,
doesn’t mean
they don’t love you with all they have.
I’ve
learned-
that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences
that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences
You’ve had
and what you’ve learned from them
And less to
do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.
I’ve
learned-
that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish.
that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish.
Few things
are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.
I’ve
learned-
that your family won’t always be there for you.
that your family won’t always be there for you.
It may seem funny, but people you aren’t
related to
can take
care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again.
I’ve
learned-
that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others.
that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes
you are to learn to forgive yourself.
I’ve
learned-
that our background and circumstances
that our background and circumstances
may have
influenced who we are,
but we are
responsible for who we become.
I’ve
learned-
that a rich person is not the one who has the most,
that a rich person is not the one who has the most,
but is one
who needs the least.
I’ve
learned-
that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other.
that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other.
And just
because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.
I’ve
learned-
that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
I’ve
learned-
that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line
that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line
Between
being nice and not hurting people’s feelings,
And standing
up for what you believe.